{"id":5672140,"date":"2019-04-30T05:54:06","date_gmt":"2019-04-30T05:54:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/121viral.com\/?p=5672140"},"modified":"2019-04-30T06:02:54","modified_gmt":"2019-04-30T06:02:54","slug":"the-art-of-social-media-war","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/121viral.com\/?p=5672140","title":{"rendered":"The Art of Social Media War"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>We all have been involved in a Social Media fight at some point in our life. Whether&nbsp;it was a forum on PS Vs Xbox or iPhone vs Android&#8230; We fight fight and still sometimes loose. Turns out that typical arguments (between Husband and Wife) are never about who&#8217;s right and who&#8217;s wrong&#8230; They are all about who&#8217;s the women. And so do most arguments on Social Media. It&#8217;s not a fight of right and wrong&#8230;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I usually don&#8217;t get involved into Social Media fights&#8230; *grabs popcorn*. But I am interested in it. And have seen a lot of these in my lifetime (15 and counting). So here&#8217;s a strategies that I have seen working and sometimes failing&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Disclaimer:<\/strong>&nbsp;These are all based on my personal experience, this is not a expert list&#8230; I should not be held responsible for any consequences if any of these strategies go wrong&#8230; THANK YOU!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.licdn.com\/dms\/image\/C5612AQFzCw9FPS4B9w\/article-inline_image-shrink_1500_2232\/0?e=1562198400&amp;v=beta&amp;t=3mjFJHPvZuxDCIHGRuKo5e3JuNXHsmt2WS3U8XSfbA0\" alt=\"\" width=\"407\" height=\"347\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Analyse:<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Before you pick your strategy. Please do a little analysis on the following:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol><li><strong>The opposing party<\/strong>&#8230; Are they strong? Are they involved in criminal activities? Do they have a die-hard following? What kind of cards can they play?<\/li><li><strong>The case<\/strong>&#8230; Is your case strong enough? Is your case easily understandable? What does law say about it (If Applicable)?&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>The intensity<\/strong>&#8230; Is it worth your time and effort<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>This will help you pick the right strategy at the right time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Strategy 1: Avoid. Ignore. Don&#8217;t Get Involved.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.licdn.com\/dms\/image\/C4E12AQHniU_kPmXi8A\/article-inline_image-shrink_400_744\/0?e=1562198400&amp;v=beta&amp;t=UrRDS3NpWAgIXBBt70kp95hndkaKEf4LyVFMYL4wzNE\" alt=\"\" width=\"331\" height=\"159\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You CANNOT fight with a guy who&#8217;s not willing to fight back. So if someone called you a idiot on Social Media. You probably don&#8217;t need to even answer back. In fact, only if it starts gaining attraction, you&#8217;ll need to start speaking&#8230; &#8220;feedback appreciated&#8221; OR &#8220;you are entitled to your opinion&#8221; works.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It may seem like the &#8216;nothing-burgers&#8217; do make a dent. They usually don&#8217;t. However, this strategy is not appropriate in many situations. In fact, in bigger fights where big guys are involved&#8230; This &#8220;Ignorant&#8221; and &#8220;I-don&#8217;t-care&#8221; attitude can backfire. Because you seriously don&#8217;t want the public to start calling you the &#8220;social-media-fugitive&#8221;.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just try your best to NOT start a fight. Works most of the time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Strategy 2: Get them involved, without strengthening their case.&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.licdn.com\/dms\/image\/C4E12AQHeUqV-3AC9Ow\/article-inline_image-shrink_1500_2232\/0?e=1562198400&amp;v=beta&amp;t=gS-R1y3334ykq4bwJAzn7lGWCJygdnWwQA5Or1ECoMA\" alt=\"\" width=\"349\" height=\"232\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now in sometimes&nbsp;the case is serious, the other party is strong or you just started a fight without reading this article. And you just need to make it a fair fight. Psychology has it [1]. Don&#8217;t defend&#8230; ATTACK. It&#8217;s human nature, when you get defensive, the opponent becomes more aggressive. So justifying yourself is the last option you should consider.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In most cases, you&#8217;ll find the other party way more controversial than you. Pull up some of their previous controversies and let the social media referees (the &#8220;neutral&#8221; guys) do the work. They&#8217;ll spread it like fire in the wood. And if you are lucky enough, the other guy will get on his defense mode&#8230; and ultimately, end up defending himself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But before you start crawling google for scandals on whosoever. Make sure that the opponent has no cards (like, I am 15, I am a Muslim, Just because I was first to this thing) to play. And a plus would be having followers&nbsp;on Social Media, to get the word out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Strategy 3: Provoke.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.licdn.com\/dms\/image\/C5612AQEsFzqdky1x0A\/article-inline_image-shrink_400_744\/0?e=1562198400&amp;v=beta&amp;t=8J4dBjcdOkGmMJAlAcbGzOGnGLqYSufQgVAcABCU5DU\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If the case has a Legal side to it. And you know you&#8217;ll win it. PROVOKE. Get them to their worst. It will not only strengthen your legal side but also cause counter-defamation to the opposition.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now provoking doesn&#8217;t always mean to stand in-front of them and &#8216;shouting&#8217;. Sometimes happy pictures on Facebook work. Or even better, not giving an answer on Social Media works. Although, this is against strategy 2 (if we look at the Psychological part &#8211; You&#8217;ll make them&nbsp;aggressive)&#8230; Sometimes, you want the opposition&nbsp;to leave loop-holes, controversial statements and stuff so that you can sue them later.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make sure you don&#8217;t make the legal side too complex. That&#8217;s your key here.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Strategy 4: Defend.&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/media.licdn.com\/dms\/image\/C4E12AQGoUTdxQP1noQ\/article-inline_image-shrink_1000_1488\/0?e=1562198400&amp;v=beta&amp;t=_MtHytpIZCYH4OB-qbPt9gihwajqRziM2xXXCtaHQIw\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>So, if everything else fails, you&#8217;ll have to defend yourself. But again, you gotta make it worthwhile. Watch this TED Talk [2]. Always use the right medium to attract the right audience, I would always prefer a video because of it&#8217;s potential on social media.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are a few tips:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li><strong>Don&#8217;t use your own stuff!&nbsp;<\/strong>A article from NYT is way more authentic than your own reports.&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>Don&#8217;t Stress.&nbsp;<\/strong>Start enjoying, builds pressure on the other party&#8230; Make sure they don&#8217;t make a dent on your happy life.<\/li><li><strong>Play your cards.&nbsp;<\/strong>We all have cards. Like &#8220;I am 15&#8221;, &#8220;I am the first&#8230;.&#8221;, &#8220;The Zionists are attacking another Muslim&#8230; Me&#8221;. Always useful on social media.<\/li><li><strong>Play Psychological Game.&nbsp;<\/strong>^ Watch the TED Talk.&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>Don&#8217;t&nbsp;Acquire Amateurs Support.&nbsp;<\/strong>BACKFIRES. Always acquire smart guys to help you out. The amateurs can not only leave loop-holes and controversial statements on social media, they might damage your legal side.&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>&#8220;With all due respect&#8221;.&nbsp;<\/strong>If it&#8217;s necessary to destroy someone, do it with &#8220;all due respect&#8221;&#8230; So that the other guy can&#8217;t use his sympathy cards.&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>DON&#8217;T be abusive.&nbsp;<\/strong>This is the worst that can happen. The moment you start attacking someone personally, SM referees loose their minds.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Good Luck with your social media war. Let me know if any of these help you out. There&#8217;s always room for improvements&#8230; Really looking forward to your suggestions.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1: Amy Cudy TED Talk (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are?language=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are?language=en<\/a>)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2: Will Stephen (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8S0FDjFBj8o\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=8S0FDjFBj8o<\/a>)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>* Images are downloaded from GOOGLE.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all have been involved in a Social Media fight at some point in our life. Whether&nbsp;it was a forum on PS Vs Xbox or iPhone vs Android&#8230; We fight fight and still sometimes loose. 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